I should have read it sooner.

As a Christian man who got involved closely with two psychopathic women, I also understand that dating is a two way street. This book, more than a handful fo times, showed where not only I was wrong but where I should have also put up some boundaries in order to save myself some frustrations and heartaches.^M

Good consul for the rest of us.

Many Christian authors insist that courting or betrothal systems are God's way for us to avoid pain and find a "soul mate." These methods are often based on a dubious patchwork of Bible verses or an adaptation of Old Testament cultural norms. We can learn from the past, but duplicating it is not the answer. For those Christians who live in 21st century culture and deal with age-old relational issues, "Boundaries in Dating" is a practical resource.^M

Challenged pretty much everything I thought about dating!

Excellent Book. I read their other book "How to get a date worth keeping" first. That totally did a paradigm shift for me on dating. This book really goes into explaing why dating relationships go bad and how to identify the warning signs and how and when to confront a dating partner and what issues are central to a healthy dating relationship. A super good book. You will understand what it means to have a healthy dating relationship. These concepts can be used in a marriage also. If you want a healthy real dating relationship, this book is the one to get. I've had a number of my friends read both books and we love them both!!!